of Tots

OK, so he's not a tot. More like a big ol' spud.

Our son.



He's 20.

and still in that stage where he doesn't know what he wants to be when he grows up.

and, thankfully, still in college.

Unfortunately, he's gone through 3 changes of majors and lots of $$$ in the process.

I'm (we're) finding it very frustrating and no amount of family talks seem to help things.

Now he's living back at home after trying 1 year in an apartment with a room mate (whom he barely new before) who had absolutely NOTHING in common (black, gay, Jewish) with him (white, hetero, Christian). It's obvious he is not happy with the situation, but after racking up a whopping load of credit card debt he has no choice right now. (Did I mention at $8.50 per hr x 37 hrs he won't have a choice for quite a while?)

*sigh*